Since I’ve been stalling on writing – I sincerely apologize for that – I decided to give us a little something before our next guest write-in which is by Tallen.
So guys, here are a few questions you need to ask yourself:
- Does she want to constantly be around you?
- Does she keep postponing your meetings with her family and friends?
- Does she often ask your opinion on decisions she makes?
- Is she flirting with you?
- Is she excited when you surprise her or she always wants you to inform her before you show up?
One fact I just learnt is that ‘For every ten men a lady meetss, she thinks eight of them are stupid.’ This amounts to 80% which goes to say that to a lady, most of the guys around her are not worth wasting time on. They are either categorized under ‘JOKERS’ or just plain ‘UNSERIOUS and UNFOCUSED’, in other words classified as ‘NFAs’ (No future ambition). My first piece of advice is that you should try as much as possible to ALWAYS be among the 20% with the ladies you associate yourself with. I’m not saying that you should have plans for all of them but at least don’t be just ‘comic relief’ to their lives.
I digress. Back to business …
Someone that’s totally into you wants to constantly be around you. If she doesn’t like hanging out with you in public or it seems like she’s avoiding you, chances are that she’s embarrassed by your presence and that definitely will lead you nowhere. This is very easy to detect so SHINE YA EYE now o!!! A lady that always meets you at a ‘spot’ is also one to be wary of. If she doesn’t like you enough to introduce you to her family or her friends at least, e don be for you. You’re just a distraction – a sort of plaything – to her so run before you get any ideas. She’s into you, she’ll want you to come ‘home’ not always meeting you wherever.
Are you sure you wanna read on? Okay let’s continue …
Next, asking your opinion on things no matter how trivial is very important. It means she trusts your judgement or she simply trusts you. So when she wants to know what you think about stuff all the time, then she’s into you because she values your opinion. As a girl, I know that when you’re totally into someone, his name rarely leaves your lips so another indication is that her friends are bored with her constant ravings and ranting about you,
‘And I was talking to Mike the other day …’
‘Then Mike just went in …’
‘One thing Mike always says is …’
If you’re not on her conversation list, then my brother DON’T BOTHER!!! She should be happy to see you when you surprise her with visits. Should she be all ‘Why didn’t you call me to inform me you were coming?’, ‘Can’t you see I’m busy?’,’ It’s a really bad time for you to be here.’, then maybe something’s wrong. If she likes you, she’ll be flirty, very touchy feely. The little hand gestures like a tap on the shoulder, an arm pat, the frequent ‘accidental’ bumps into you; she just wants some form of contact. Even with this, she can’t look directly at you. She’s a little shy and lets out these little giggles. Basically, she becomes a semi-child in your presence.
This next bit is probably scary guys so hang on …
When a lady is into you, she makes subtle references to family life – Marriage (Yes I said marriage and I really am about to type the next word as well :-D), children, what she wants her kitchen to look like – the list is endless. She’s basically telling you that she wants a future with you but don’t be scared and run away!!! Lastly she wants to hear from you all the time. If you usually talk once every day and there’s a break in the routine she starts to fret and no its not nagging! She may call your phone and say it was accidental – maybe she hit redial (yeah right!) or she mistakenly dialled while her phone was in her pocket (classic excuse!!!).
In summary, the greatest confession of a woman is ‘You’ve been on my mind the whole day’. It translates to ‘I love you’, ‘I need you’ AND ‘I want you’! This statement means she’s DEFINITELY into you!!!
So guys, you know some things to look out for to know if she’s into you but be warned – ‘DO NOT MANIPULATE ANY GIRL TO YOUR ADVANTAGE’. The law of life – karma – it will definitely come back to you.
Hope you enjoyed reading guys, and ladies, I’m sorry I did this … I had to give them a little heads up! I’ll soon put up ‘He’s totally into you’ so sit tight!!!