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Random Ish … What do you all think?

Listen up people! This is a just the tip of the iceberg … Just listen and learn and feel free to disagree!

So ladies …
1. Beauty attracts a guy but wisdom makes him stay.
2. Elegance catches his attention but intelligence convinces him.
3. Nagging irritates guys but ‘constructive silence’ weakens them.
4. The ‘boy’ in every man pumps out occasionally, your ability to handle this is your truest maturity.
5. Every guy has secret struggles and silent pains. Should you ever find them out, exhibit the greatest maturity.
6. In the long-run your ‘words’ matter more to a man than your ‘looks’. So start from now to invest the right words.
7. Earn a man’s respect and he will consider you the yard stick for all his actions.
8. Learn to mold the moods of your man.
9. Men will naturally give you their futures if they can recall your maturity in yesterday’s issues..
10. Women are every where but queens are scarce. Let the queen in you come alive and he will hold you in high esteem.

And guys …
1. Never start as ‘just friends’ with a lady you want to set p with … It would not go anywhere.
2. When she likes you she tries by all means to make some sort of contact … A pat, a touch or a hug!!!
3. Don’t assume every woman’s the same … Because Ann likes teddies doesn’t mean Rose likes them as well.
4. A girl would rather get a ‘Just thinking about you’ text than a two hour conversation where you guys don’t really say much …
5. Most times when you hurt her and she says ‘get out’, she really means ‘hold me close’
6. If she tries to change you too much, most likely you won’t be satisfied with her …
7. The little things you do matter most …
8. Give her space enough to be with her girls … Let her make the choice to be with you all the time 🙂
9. Do not be jealous of her male friends and start hoarding her. She chose you after all and it is so unattractive but a little jealousy doesn’t hurt once in a while 😉
10. Every lady likes to be told she looks good and she’s beautiful so NEVER hesitate to throw out a compliment!!!

That’s just from my point of view … Feel free add to this list. You just might save someone’s life … Lol!
Hope you enjoyed it!!!

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Changing rooms or Different mirrors???

Its amazing how many times I say ‘I’ll get to it’ or ‘I’ll do it later’ in a day. And its not like I’m busy doing anything, I’m just being lazy … I’ve been ‘getting round’ to posting this blog for a while but I keep posting it. No pun intended.

Anyway, what’s been on my mind lately is one whole jungle of words and events … From family to friends to school and stuff like that. But basically all through one thing kept running through my mind … People change!!!

Half the time I’m trying to help others sort out their issues which is not a bad thing per se but when I find out that one of the parties involved has been playing me half the time, it gets personal on a whole other level. He had me believing that two of my very best friends had become very vicious animals but luckily for me, I went into the settlement with a very open mind.

Basically, we all say people change. I believe people change as well but when you assess the situations around you, do you really think it possible for everyone to have changed? Maybe its just you. You’ve become a better person so you have to make new lifestyle choices or you’ve joined the wrong set of people and all of a sudden your usual crowd just doesnt cut it – All in all, people dont change but you do! As paradoxical as it sounds, its true … Next time you feel like everyone around you’s changed, assess the situation and see but still all this is just in my opinion …